Sunday, March 31, 2013

of Betrayals, Peculiarities and Love

Read 4 books this month with more or less the central theme revolving around those three words.  So, as promised (to myself hehe) below is my take on the books I have read for March.

1.  Every day by David Levithan - the plot is surreal, but there was a point where I began to wonder if it can be possible, if there really are drifters like A.  And how many times in my life did I really feel "out of it", like someone else is doing stuff and I am merely an observer trapped in my own body?  Well, i guess that is a testament on how well Levithan wrote this book.  There are a lot of notable lines in there that can strike a chord in people's hearts.  Well it did mine, at least. So, here are some that I really like:

There are many things that can keep you in a relationship.  Fear of being alone, fear of disrupting the arrangement on your life.  A decision to settle for something that's okay because you don't know if you can get any better.  Or maybe, there's the irrational belief that it will get better.  Even if you know he won't change.

I keep turning back to see her.  Even when there are walls between us.  Even when there are miles between us.  I keep turning back.  I keep turning back in her direction.

If you want live within the definition of your own truth, you have to choose to go through the initially painful and ultimately comforting process of finding it.

I wanted love to conquer all.  But love can't conquer anything.  It can't do anything on its own.  It relies on us to do the conquering on its behalf.

Kinda cheesy and kinda emo, right?  but I guess that was the overall mood of the book.  Oh, and of course, hope and love.

I like the fact that A and Rhiannon have hope.  Especially A, since his situation is  really difficult, he makes it a point to do something about his situation.  The epitome of the saying "if there's a will, there's a way".  Some people confronted with a difficult situation will either accept the fact that it is difficult and stay within the confines of that situation, but some will find ways to alleviate their situation, take steps to make that difficult situation a better situation, come hell or high water. Turn the impossible into the possible.  I admire people who are like that.  And that is why I like A, that is why I loved this book.

2.  Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children by Ransom Riggs - two words:  thrilling ride. The mixture of the story complemented by the vintage photos really made this book quite an experience.  An air of reality is injected in the story due to the presence of the photographs. 

It is the story of Jacob, a sixteen year old boy whose life will be forever altered due to certain peculiar events in his life which lead him to find Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children.  I like the way Ransom Riggs tells the story which is both haunting and thrilling. I also like the way Jacob developed in the story, matured in a way.  He started out as scared boy looking for answers and when he found his place in the world, something in him clicked.  He decided to face his destiny with all its uncertainties and with danger lurking in every corner, head-on.

Initially, I got the book because I was intrigued by the cover of a hovering little girl with a tiara staring directly at me. Now, looking back, i think that was a good decision after all :).

3.  Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn - O.M.G.  Now i understand why this book was described as addicting.  I could not put it down.  AND the TWIST.  My gosh!  

Obviously, I like the book.  I read Dark Places before I read this and that was also a good read.  Kinda disturbing though, but still good nonetheless.  But I liked Gone Girl better.  Still disturbing, but hey, it was a suspense filled disturbing thingie that you just cannot put down.  A nice kind of disturbing (if there is such a thing) that got me hooked on the book. 

Amy and Nick Dunne are indeed made for each other in every way.  In may sound romantic and it is romantic for most people, but for these two, it is one lifetime of trying to be the best for each other, be it for better or worse, for both love and punishment.  

One memorable line in the book that I feel everyone can relate to goes like this:

I was told that love should be unconditional.  That's the rule, everybody says so.  But if love has no boundaries, no limits, no conditions, why should anyone try to do the right thing, ever?

SPOILER ALERT: Who is better between the two? that is for the reader to decide.  For me, I think its Nick.  Given all his flaws, his infidelity, his craving to be the "hero", all of which are forgivable in the grand scheme of things.  But Amy? two words: psycho bitch.  And her being a twisted sick person is embedded in her whole being, a being with no remorse whatsoever.  Scary.

If you haven't read a suspense novel in a while, this is the book to read. 'Nuff said.

4.  Emily the Strange: The Lost Days by Rob Reger - Gone Girl left me in a daze so I opted for a fun and light read and this book did not disappoint.  It was a mystery, finding out about Emily the Strange and why she was in Blackrock and who she was and all that since she lost all her past memories.  

I was intrigued by Emily the Strange and I got the book just because. I did not know anything about her until I read the book :)  Good thing my instincts on buying books are kinda good for the past purchases (yay! ).

It was an entertaining read, actually.  A very entertaining read that I am planning to go to the bookstore to get the other 2 books on Emily the Strange.

Oh, and I read it in a day :)


So, that's it for now.  I still have 3 books on my March-April TBR list : 1. The Song of Achilles, 2. Write Here, Write Now and 3. Why We Broke Up.  I started reading the latter last night and so far so good :)

Till next time!


-M

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

a year later

On Monday, March 25, it will exactly be a year since my Tatay Joe passed away.

Up until now, I still cannot stop the tears from falling just thinking about that sad, sad day.  I still cannot get over the fact that I was not able to see him before he left, that I was not able to tell him how much I appreciate everything he did for me and my family and how much I love him.

I guess we all realize how precious every moment is when there are no more moments to be shared in the future and we are only left with memories.

I know he is happy now with our Creator.  Though he was taken away from this life earlier than we all could have wanted, I know he has lived a full life. 

I miss you so much Tatay... the Kare-Kare during Christmas and during my birthday; the flowers and heart-shaped balloons during Valentine's day (thank you for always making my VDay special); the trinkets and knick-knacks you bring home for me, and for always, always being there for us in however and whatever way you can.  Thank you for making food exciting and interesting for me.  It was that love for food (and the goodness of your cooking) that eventually lead me to my profession. 

We love you so much.  As promised, I will continue to strive to be a better person to make you proud.

Monday, March 18, 2013

March and April TBR

The bibliophile in me is screaming, telling me to make a significant dent in my TBR list, so as promised (to myself that is), to help me with my reading, I will post my TBR list every two months and try to write about it after I finished reading it.  So, for March and April, here are the books I plan to read and hopefully finish haha! :)


1.  Every Day - David Levithan
2.  Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children - Ransom Riggs
3.  Emily the Strange: The Lost Days - Rob Reger and Jessica Gruner
4.  Why We Broke Up - Daniel Handler
5.  GOne Girl - Gillian Flynn
6.  Write Here Write Now - AA Patawaran
7.  The Song of Achilles (ebook) - Madeline Miller





lezzz do dizzz :)

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

what i did with my happy B :)

The Bee gave us Bees the Happy B last Feb 27 and it was a happy one indeed :).  Unlike most companies, our bosses give us our Bs on February and August for the year-end and midyear respectively.  So what did I do with my B this year?  I plan not to splurge as much, but save a bit more and focus on my financials.  But I did get some things that I was itching to get the past year.  So here's what I did with my hard-earned B:

1.  Payments. Payments.  Payments.  - as mentioned, I want to focus more on my financials: loans, insurance payments, bills and other stuff that needs to be paid.  So far, I have finished more than half of my loans in the past year and some of them will be done by next year.  Yay!

2.   Portable Music  - yup, I got myself a portable speaker.  I got the X-Mini v1.1 capsule speaker from  Power Mac Center.  I have been crushing on this speaker for a while and surprise! when I went to the store to check it out (again) and look for other speaker options, it was ON SALE!!!! yay!  So since I think the universe is egging me on to get the speaker, I gave in.  Who am I to say no to the universe, anyway?!?

I got a free toy, too! :)

I must admit I am really really happy with this purchase.  The sound is great, their brand promise Sound Beyond Size is indeed true.  For more on the technical specs of this product you may click this link: http://www.x-mini.com/products-detail-overview.aspx?sid=4.

Oh, and yes its PINK :P

3. Jelly for my feet -   I have been meaning to get a pair of jelly shoes since it can be used in both sunny and rainy weather.  So, here it is, check out my Mel Blueberry:



I got mine from Verao, a newly opened store which sells only Mel shoes in Robinsons Metro East.  For more designs, you may visit their Facebook Page, look for Mel Philippines https://www.facebook.com/MelPhilippines

I was supposed to get the black one, but when I tried it on, the gold one looked better.  The shoes are comfortable to wear and easy to clean too :).

4.  Pampered Little Helpers.  Its been a long while since I last visited a Nail Salon.  I mostly clean and do my manicure and pedicure on my own for the past few months.  So, I got myself a nail spa treatment from Nailaholics as a bonus for my overworked hands and feet.  I got the Sea Surf Manicure, Pedicure, Foot Spa with Algae Wrap.  It was really relaxing, the hand and foot massage was very good, too.

Happy Feet :)

My feet looooooked good, hahaha!  :)

For more on Nailaholics' services, visit their website at http://www.nailaholics.com.

5.  Book Geek Staples.  or Staple, since I only got myself one book.  The titles I was looking for were out of stock: John Green's The Fault in Our Stars and Paper Towns.  Will just look for them next time.  However, I did get my hands on Why We Broke Up by Daniel Handler aka Lemony Snicket.

Gotcha!

This book was also out of stock for a while, but lo and behold, it was there when I visited the bookstore! :) Looking forward to reading this since I mostly read good reviews.  Hope it won't disappoint :)

6.  Smart Look - I need to update my wardrobe.  That much I mentioned in my 2013 Resolutions.  Since I cannot get the update all at the same time, I launched my Buy an Article of Clothing per payday project.  Since this is some sort of a payday thingie, I went out and got myself a pair of Tops which can be used both in the office and out :) Smart, eh? 

Well, it was actually my friend Yna who helped me pick these out since she is a genius in that department :)

Cool Tops
We opted to buy light colors since I mostly own blacks and blues and certain variations of those hues, like gray for instance :P.

Both tops are from Forever 21.


So that's it.  That's how I spent my Happy B. Well some of it at least.  I still managed to save some for rainy days :)

Till next time!

-M


Monday, March 04, 2013

Happy 2013!

I know ... its late but better late than never right? :)

Its been a long time since I last wrote something.  Its funny since I have been thinking about topics for my posts for a while.  But, unfortunately, I haven't had the time to write them all down. Alas! the life of a corporate drone! *insert sad face asking for sympathy here*

Anyhoo, I have been reading quite a lot, but not as much as I want to.  I feel like my reading pace is quite slow, I can't quite make a dent in my TBR list haha :P (lazy, lazy).  Plus, there are a lot of books I still want to get my hands on, so i need to take my pace up a notch... To help me do this, i made it a part of my 2013 resolutions, I PLAN (take note: all caps on PLAN not DO :P) to write down and post the list of books I would want to read in a month or two, then write about it after I read it :) *fingers crossed* ... sounds like a good plan, right?!? This way, I will either be motivated to read more or pressured to read and finish my blog post before the month ends ;).

I also hope to post more on stuff i have been doing, or maybe a few random stuff I find interesting.  I really don't know yet actually, but definitely food and books and some poetry are my top picks.  I would also like to try my hand on food blogging :)  since I do eat out quite a bit I may be posting some of my thoughts on that as well.

Since I already mentioned one of my resolutions for 2013, I might as well post the whole list.  Here it is, in no particular order:
  1. Be happy.
  2. Read more books.
  3. Write more.
  4. Watch more movies.
  5. Spend more time with family.
  6. Spend more time with friends.  If need be, exert more effort to keep in touch with friends.
  7. Buy at least one article of clothing per pay day :) - this resolution i soooooo like :)
  8. Open and maintain a savings account
  9. Save money.  Learn to evaluate purchases first prior to buying (is it a need or a want?)
  10. Pay my credit card and loan debts.  DO NOT get a new card unless all are paid.
  11. Learn to drive.
  12. Go on vacation.
  13. Schedule an out of town travel and if possible an out of the country trip.
  14. Be aggressive in work matters.
  15. Work for a promotion.
  16. Get a new phone (hopefully!)
  17. Haul my lazy fat self back to the gym and TRY to stay in shape :)
  18. Try to eat healthy :)
  19. Blog more.  Plan and try hard to write about the books I want to read within a month or two.  Plus write about other topics : places I've been, things I saw, etc.
  20. Hopefully, find love :) - I write this every year, i would like to claim that this is a done deal this year.  as they say, if you really want something, the universe conspires to help make that thing happen.  Hoping the universe is not so busy this year and it will be my turn to be conspired on ;)
So, on to 2013!  and since this is a very late post, let me greet you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, Happy Three Kings, Happy Valentine's Day, Kung Hei Fat Choi! Gong Xi Fa Cai! :)



See you soon!

- M